According to Whitehead

"So," said Stefan, "what is all this for? It's just words!"

I am trying to find a context in which both things find their place, the physical laws of the universe and human experience. Whitehead said it was much better expressed mathematically - well, I'll have to take his word for it - but if love is at the boundary where the emotional and the world of matter meet, no wonder we have trouble with it.